They, I really don't know who "they" are, say before you can love someone else you have to love yourself. They also say that you have to take care of yourself before you can take care of someone else. I had never agreed with with that before, now not so much. I can't put the oxygen mask on my child before I put it on me. I need the oxygen in order to save them. I have to be able to love me before I can love. It may seem simplistic and even a bit selfish, but it is the truth.
And I'll turn right back around